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SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY



The marriage lines are not a formality, and a little later i shall discuss this legal institution and what it means. Discovering sexual compatibility before marriage is one of the strong arguments raised by young people. They say, it is better to find out that we are not compatible before marriage than after marriage. 

Let me assure you that sexual compatibility cannot be assessed or discovered as easily as you think it can. It may take months or even years for two people to be adjusted sexually. Some couples are lucky to find that they suit each other almost immediately after marriage. Others take longer and some couples may take five to eight or more years to become adjusted. It needs patience, love and adjustment by both partners. Sexual compatibility is not to be found after two or three experiences in the back seat of a car on occasional dates.
There must be commitment , give and take, to ensure that compatibility exists. Further, what happens  when, after the first trial, compatibility is absent? Does that mean that young men and women then go on with this business of trial and error for compatibility, and you change partners almost as often as Sunday comes? No, this is no approach to sex. In fact, it is immoral, since sexual compatibility becomes an excuse for sexual laxity and promiscuity , particularly in people who have no worth while values, and who subscribe to what is called free love. “Love” should not, and cannot, be “free” it is to have any value.   


By : Anysource